I learned the hard way this past weekend that me time is important. How you wonder? I blew up screaming at everyone in the house when my brother and niece were goofing around. The problem was she was screeching like only a 16 year old girl can. My nephew, sick with a cold, would not blow his nose or wear a jacket....but the night before begged me to get him sudafed PE. My brother was complaining about my dog's toys........
Enough....all of you can use inside voices. I don't want to hear how sick you are if you won't wear a jacket and that nose thing is making me crazy. CAN YOU DO JUST THESE COUPLE OF THINGS FOR ME!!!
Maybe it was not appropriate to scream back but I needed to be heard. I have been spending so much time planning stuff for the weight watcher meetings, getting to jazzercise every morning even when I can't move without pain. Planning the Presidential Active Lifestyle Award roll out, getting the dog's pill/nails trimmed...this on top of my every day requests at the office. I was at my max.
I love taking the dog for a walk. We do it nightly........no matter how much pain I might be in with my plantar fasciatis. Usually by the end of the walk my muscles are warm and not as aggravated. Nice thing is I have a smile on my face and am ready to sit in front of the tv or veg in front of a 'words' game (words with friends, scramble with friends, hanging with friends). I also love looking at my fitbit (pictured on the side of this blog) checking to see how many calories I have burned, steps I have taken and looking at the encouraging statements that flash across the screen!
I love making time for me and wandering the malls. I don't have to buy anything but just going in and out of the stores to see what is out there. If something strikes my fancy I have been known to make an impromptu purchase.
Cooking helps me relax too. The repetition of cutting, the smells melding together and of course the end result of a (hopefully) good meal.
It seems I have a full plate but will continue to look for more. Gardening will be on my agenda again soon. I want to try raspberries this year. I never plant before mother's day (isn't that an old wives tale?) but will get the pots ready for the raspberries. According to the books I need to really fertilize the soil in the pots. Living in a townhouse complex I can't plant in the ground but can have a crazy time with pots. My pretty pot garden! I have never tried them before and am always up for a challenge.
Ashton Kucher convinced me to get a Nikon 1 J1 camera this weekend too. (we are close personal friends......NOT) I am looking forward to wandering about the Morton Arboretum snapping shots of nature. I am excited for the fact that when I take sassy to rescue events she can be a star with her pug friends and I can capture these moments.
I am really looking to spread my wings and try new things this next season....how about you?
{{{{Hugs}}} Elaine. Love ya.
ReplyDeleteHugs and a "good for you". Sometimes a true show of emotion is what those around us need to see and hear.
ReplyDeleteHave fun with your new camera. I would love to know what you think of it.
Good for you, Elaine! You need to take time for yourself since you do so much for so many, and if things get crazy, then letting off a bit of steam is tons better than bottling it all in!
ReplyDeleteI want to start gardening, too, but will have to wait until we move to our new house...looking forward to it!
Keep on keeping on...you're doing great! : )
Elaine - we don't start our gardens until Memorial Day - even later than Mother's Day! Enjoy your new camera and have fun taking time for YOU.
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